Ugh!!! Why does this site tell me I have instant messages… But if I missed them and they were sent

Ottawa, Kansas //meelp.com/profile/bbw_kansas Delia:We did attend the wedding but we opted out on gifts.(6 February 2017) Delia:If you look at my phone you will see the history of our many attempts and their flakiness towards us.(6 February 2017) Delia:They live walking distance from us and we have many many attempts to get together.(6 February 2017) Delia:It’s [...]
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Alysha:
Few days later he contacted asking for help for random stuff.
(6 February 2017)

Alysha:
I was rejected after trying to ask him out as more than friends.
(6 February 2017)

Mario:
How to Tell an Ex-Girlfriend that you ve gotten Fat?
(6 February 2017)

Mario:
If this has ever happened to you before what did you do?
(6 February 2017)

Mario:
Would it be better not mention and just let her find out when she sees me?
(6 February 2017)

Mario:
Should I just tell her in a message or send a new picture?
(6 February 2017)

Mario:
So what do you think is the best way to tell her?
(6 February 2017)

Mario:
Lol unfortunately since then I ve put on like 30kg, and last time I weighed myself I was like 97kg.
(6 February 2017)

Mario:
And unless mutual friend let her know, she probably things I still weigh like 65kg like when we were dating.
(6 February 2017)

Mario:
Now we ve organised to go out for a drink next week, but there s one problem.... I haven t told her that I got fat.
(6 February 2017)